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| Q:- I am a Newarni girl. My family is extremely orthodox, and unfortunately at present I am in love with a Brahmin guy. This is known to me that my father will kill me if he will come to know about this but I cant live without him. Please guide me. A:-Well after reading your problem the first thing which should be known to me is your age. Because you seem to be a practical gal and as so your lover should be. For such decision you should be damn strong and you first check it out whether it is true love or just an infatuation, because sometime we call love to just an infatuation. And any quick decision can spoil the life of yours and your lovers too. But if you think that its not just the infatuation then I think nothing can stop you people. Although the society and families will obviously create troubles , at that time you both will have to think sharply and act strongly, but keep your mind open and eyes wide. First sit and decide how important is families to you, then the importance of religion for both of you, then the strength of your love and last but not the least whether you are financial independent or not. Because all these factor matters in long term relations.And if you both thoroughly go through all these things and find no doubt is there then you can go ahead. Nothing can stop you, and I personally wish both of you good luck. |
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